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Why You Need to RUN If a Buyer Wants to Talk to You Without Proper Representation

By Oliver Bogner, Managing Partner – The Advisory Investment Bank

If you own an essential service business—HVAC, plumbing, pest, landscaping, fire safety, restoration, roofing—sooner or later, the call comes.

A private equity group, competitor, or “strategic” buyer reaches out.

They’re friendly.

They’re flattering.

They say they’ve been “watching your growth.”

And then they say the line that should make every founder extremely cautious:

“Let’s just talk founder to founder. We don’t need to involve bankers or advisors. We want to make this simple.”

Sounds nice.

Feels efficient.

Looks respectful.

It’s none of those things.

It’s a strategy—and if you don’t understand what’s really happening, it can cost you millions.

The #1 Rule of M&A Nobody Tells Founders

Here’s the rule I wish every business owner knew:

Buyers don’t call you directly because they want to pay more.

They call you directly because they want to pay less.

If a buyer genuinely wanted to:

…they would welcome you having professional representation.

Instead, they say things like:

Translation?

“Please don’t bring in someone who actually knows what your business is worth.”

Why Unrepresented Sellers Get Taken Advantage Of

This part is blunt, but it’s the truth:

An unrepresented seller is a bargain.

And buyers know it.

We talk to these buyers all the time. They literally brag about:

These stats go into their investor decks as proof that they’re “sourcing efficiently.”

It gets worse.

There are even buy-side “advisors” who present themselves like true investment banks—but they’re actually paid by the buyer to bring them unrepresented owners.

If someone approaches you saying:

“I’m working with a group that wants to buy businesses like yours.”

Your very first question should be:

“Who pays you?”

If the answer is the buyer, they do not work for you. Their incentives are directly aligned with getting your business cheap, not maximizing your outcome.

When you don’t have your own advisor:

That’s how founders end up with:

And they often sign their life’s work away without realizing how bad the deal really is until it’s over.

Their Goal vs Your Goal (They Are Not the Same)

Let’s simplify it:

Your goal:

Sell your business for the highest price on the best terms with maximum protection.

Their goal:

Buy your business for the lowest price on the most favorable terms with minimal risk to them.

These are not compatible objectives.

This isn’t:

This is a financial transaction.

The buyer has:

You have:

It’s not a fair fight.

The “Good Cop” Buyer Script

Buyers rarely show up as villains. They’re smart enough not to.

Instead, they use a “good cop” script:

“We want to make this easy.”

Translation: So you don’t call someone who will demand a better deal.

“We’re not like other buyers.”

Translation: We’re running the same playbook as every other roll-up, we just sound nicer.

“We don’t want to waste time with bankers.”

Translation: Bankers make us pay market value. That’s bad for us, good for you.

“Your business is great, let’s just work something out between us.”

Translation: Let us anchor you as low as possible before anyone else can bid.

This isn’t evil. It’s just strategy.

They’re doing their job.

You need someone doing yours.

What I See Every Week

Here’s what the pattern looks like from my side of the table at The Advisory:

  1. Founder gets a direct call.
  2. Feels flattered. “They must really like my business.”
  3. Buyer throws out a number. It sounds big—until you see what the market would actually pay.
  4. Terms get layered in: low cash at close, aggressive earnouts, heavy rollover, one-sided reps & warranties.
  5. Sensitive financials and internal data get shared early, before any competition exists.
  6. By the time we’re called, the founder has already lost leverage and anchored themselves too low.

Can we help in those situations? Sometimes, yes.

But it’s always harder. And sometimes, we’re simply brought in too late to fully fix it.

What Changes When You’re Properly Represented

Here’s what happens when you have proper, sell-side only representation:

You:

The buyer:

The power dynamic flips.

A represented founder is not cheap. But they’re fairly priced—and that’s exactly what Main Street deserves.

So, Should You Really “Run”?

If a buyer says:

“Let’s talk without bringing in advisors.”

What you should actually hear is:

“We’d like to negotiate with you while you’re blindfolded.”

You don’t have to assume they’re bad people. Many are good, smart, professional teams.

But the second you enter a negotiation without your own representation, you’ve already lost home-field advantage—and they know it.

That’s why, at The Advisory Investment Bank, we’ve made it our mission to:

Defend Main Street.

We work only for business owners.

We represent only sellers.

We live only in essential services.

We know every major buyer in your space.

We know what they’re paying.

We know how they structure deals.

We know where they push—and where they’ll bend when they’re forced to compete.

What To Do If You’ve Already Been Contacted

If you:

You don’t need to panic.

But you do need to pause.

Talk to someone who:

You don’t have to sell.

You don’t have to sign anything.

You don’t even have to like the answers.

But you should never go into the most important financial transaction of your life blindfolded and alone.

If you’re in HVAC, plumbing, pest, landscaping, fire safety, restoration, roofing, or another essential service—and a buyer wants to “keep it simple” and talk directly:

Run first.

Then call someone who’s on your side.

That’s exactly why we’re here.